Sunday, October 19, 2008

happily eva afta?

I'm too cynical 2 believe they'll live happily ever after.my aunts i.v 4 her wedding just got to me now through an emmissary from my grandpa at the villa.sometimes I'm so proud of my grandpa,his mind is still very sharp and his writing is even better than mine at 87.whao!wish i could scan d letter sef.You are wondering why its my grandpa who hd 2 send these i.vs 2 us se, my mom and aunt had a big fallout when my mom told her 2 get out of our house.u see my mom thinks this aunt of ours who by d way is 43,was spoilt by their parents cos she's d last born and she feels dis contributed in my no means a small way 2 not finding a husband up until now.Im happy 4 her but cant help wondering about certain thns.1.is she marryn dis guy becos she loves him and/or for companionship.does love even mata at dat age anymo?my silly sis even had 2 mention that if there's hope for my aunt at 43,then there's hope for her at 26-silly girl,she claims its been a while since she's been bn toasted.2.does dis guy hv kids already,according 2 d i.v,they will be married in a gospel church so im sure he is not married at the moment.3.he looks younger like late 30s but then again my sis says men look younger than woman at that age.4.if he's divorced.does he have kids?wil he b committed 2 having more kids with my aunt as she who is nearing menopause or oops 4 all I knw she migt have hit menopause..we are not close so i wouldn't knw.ultimately,im happy 4 her n wish her d best thou i must confess I belong 2 the school of thought that feels that can my aunt truly make any man happy?cos she's a tad bit selfish but i guess :love conquers all.and airi ru e ri,a fin deruba oloro ni.

23 comments:

Abujamaiden said...

Love might have changed her.

Imagine her blogging about her wedding, we'll all be congratulating her.

Anyway, hope she and he are happy!

Abujamaiden said...

Lol@ labelling the post 'menopause'

Invisible said...

You this woman and your shorthand. I don't speak shorthand o, you're not texting now, lol.
As for your aunt, I no know o but I know I wouldn't recommend having kids at 43. Usually, pregancy after age 40 is not recommended. It's not impossible but the medical risks are much greater.
Why are you questioning her sef? If she's the one marrying the dude, I'm sure she would have done the research and if she didn't, oh well, good luck to her.
I still owe you o, I'll be back on my grind. I promise.

badderchic said...

Abi o! invisible, wetin concyn agbero with overload? lol

I understand your concerns but babe, shes a big gurl she can sooo take care of herself abi.

on the other hand, Ive been looking for wedding to go to since, send me an IV IM SO SERIOUS,

Invisible dont worry Ill parry for the two of us.

miz-cynic said...

@abujamaiden:"dont mind me jare na jealousy jealousy na in dey worry mi......as in wetin be my own sef....she be big girl,she'll handle herself, its just tht sometimes , i cant help be protective of FAMILY

@invisible:-NA TEXT O..COS MOST OF MY POSTS ARE DONE FROM MY PHONE SO NA TXT MSG I DEY SEND TO blogger o.

@ badderchic-u no go fit go now. its at o.a.u-ile ife

exschoolnerd said...

i saw the label menopause and cudnt help laughing..

miz-cynic said...

DONT MIND ME JARE, ESN

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

But, aunty cynic, this your title na wa oh! lol!

kai, i struggled to read this thing oh. But congrats to your aunt. I hope she has found true love.

Buttercup said...

hey darl! i just dey hail o..will be back to catch up..btw who do u think my crush is ooo? holla @ me on tee8701@gmail.com

miz-cynic said...

@solomonsydelle-how are the lil boys....or shd i say men!*wink*...dont mind me o...i dey always dey use my phone so my fingers hurt....so i use short forms loads.
@butter-omo i tot u're supposed to be reding ur books.lol. i'll send tht mail right away , u knw i like to sofo a lot.ask chari.

miz-cynic said...

ill edit the post by popular demand now tht im on a compura.

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

girl sometimes your shorthand is so difficult to read or maybe im just too dumb.......maybe like someone else said love has changed your aunt, or rather changed the way her husband to be views her....to be truly in love with someone means to be aware of thier faults and still want to be with them regardless...so maybe it will work

Buttercup said...

I guess this is just u being ur cynical self..lol..at least u r wishin her well!

Ur granpa reminds me of mine..he'l be 86 in dec..still takes walks n exercises..but dang hes TROUBLESOME!

miz-cynic said...

@mdm-ur not dumb o. i just write frm my phone like im texting,sorry but i don edit am now.i so agree with u tht love has to take the faults and thwe pluses. me tht im talking nko.sebi i still dey biff one of my exes for leaving me cos he said im stubborn N I FIGURED THT IF U RILY LOVE SOMEONE , U STICK WITH THEIR FAULLTS 2. THNKS FOR SWINGING BY JAREur comment made a lot of sense

@buttercups-yes o my gramps with his big big olden days queens english.lol.im having a rethink abt telling u wu it is so tht wen u guyss get chummy....u wont go and tell him wht i said...

Rita said...

ROTFL @ Label = Menopause

Love changes people. I am a living example of how love changed someone - both the love of God and the love of a man. Love brings out the best in people.

But if she has not changed (ie the love thing has not made the good side of her start showing) then I really hope she is not marrying out of desperation.

My mum is fifty something and has not reached menopause while my grandmother had her last child at 45 so your aunt may still have chances. Hopefully, technology will help, not forgetting that with God nothing is impossible.

I wish her all the best :-)

miz-cynic said...

@rita-lovely comment jare. i just worry, cos i know she wants a child of he own....i wish i could ask her all these questions cos i truly do care but since we're not very close any more i doubt if i can before they label me "winch"

ibiluv said...

my aunt had a baby at 45
yes she had to be careful with her health but it went well........

i'm glad for her
age is a number they say
she can always adopt sef.......

miz-cynic said...

@ibi-thanks for ur care jare.and yes se she can adopt. i spoke her yesterday and she's very excited.

Tisha said...

love is important
i believe that she has found love
go for the wedding and be happy for her
marriage takes faith
or don't you know?
if not hwy have you not said yes?

OluwaDee said...

You'd be surprised; she may just be d perfect match for the man.

Y are u worrying 4 her?
Shes happy and looking forward to the rest of her life.

I believe age is just a number.

miz-cynic said...

@tisha-i guess its just cynical me at play.
@oluwade--sing it girl...age aint nothin but a number...aaliyah...honestly even on the i.v the man looked rily jhappy like he had found the flesh of his flesh

talesandtallies said...

At 43...!wow, dat's remarkable. I'm guessing she loves better with age.

ps: try t calm dwn luv... if he makes her happy, dts prolly all dt matters.

T & T
xoxo

miz-cynic said...

@TALES-yes very remarkable...i shall not miss it even if its in kutuwenji.im so happy for her/